PREGNANCY?? Please Help Please Read ?? :( ?

Question by : PREGNANCY?? Please help please read ?? :( ?
Ok so here’s the deal. I really need everyones advice on this one please please please! Me and my husband have been trying to conceive for a year now. I’m getting a little worried but cannot afford infertility treatments at this time. 3 months ago we thought we may have became pregnant as I was spotting abnormally and ended up having a HCG Level at 13 then went back within 48 hours and when down to 5.. The doc said I may have had a very early pregnancy and wouldn’t of known if I didn’t have blood test done because there was no missed period yet. Also my husband has been doing cocaine here and there, I would say once a month but I don’t touch drugs what’s so ever.. Could this be a reason why it’s taking so long? We Are constantly having unprotected sex so I don’t think I’m missing the time of the month when I can conceive. I’ve been keeping track of my ovulation days but still nothing. I’m 27 and my husband is 23.. He has a child by another women.. I also had a abortion in the past when I was about 18 almost 10 years ago… I never had a infection or anything abnormal after that… Also I don’t have my legs up after sex either I know they say to do that … And everyone also keeps saying when the time is right but we are in the right timing where I just got a wonderful job and so did my husband we have a beautiful home and it’s just getting me so worried. Like I said I did have a abortion in the past but my doc said that wouldn’t matter unless I had more then one or issues with it and I didn’t.. Please help! Thank you :/ 

I know my husband shouldn’t be doing drugs but If we do become pregnant he will stop he is not addicted he just likes to have it once a month! Please no rude comments I’m just so upset!

Best answer:

Answer by redpaintedroses
yes it is very possible it is your husband and there is a chance can affect your baby if you do become pregnant while he is on drugs. this is something that should be fixed now not after the baby is born

http://www.babycenter.com/0_ten-things-he-should-do-before-you-try-to-get-pregnant_1347929.bc?page=3

Answer by juicebcb
First off no one should judge you because he with out sin cast the first stone. We all have demons in our past and demons we still deal with. Cocaine def lowers sperm count and effects reproduction. If you do get pregnant during this time while your hubby is on drugs it can cause a higher risk of a child with disabilities like retardation or autism. The chances are unlikely, I know this cause my late father did the same and I turned out ok since I am 2 years from my doctorate in medicine.

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